A boy has two different roads in his love-life. First, is a crush, someone the boy might fall in love with because of her looks, her outer beauty. Second, is someone the boy feels comfortable with, someone the boy likes because of her personality, her inner beauty. Between these roads, a boy, or even a grown-up man, feels the difficulty of choosing, and their ego speaks.
I might be not a professional in this (so-called) psychological thingy but this is what I saw from my point of view.
Someone ever said: "She's gorgeous. I like her. I want her to be my girlfriend" and deep in his mind, he said again "So that my friends would envy me for having her as my girl"
That's real, though, someone said that years ago. And now that I thinking about it again, he is so naive and pathetic, well, he is just a boy in his puberty. What could I expect from him?
And nowadays, many guys thinking that having someone so gorgeous outside is making them proud. Proud that their friends envy them, people not looking down at them and whatever. But that's not what love is about, seriously.
It's 2013 already and maybe I'm not in my position to say things like this but, again, could you at least use your heart, please?
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